A Zambian politician, Hon. Given Katuta Mwelwa, recently shared advice for married women, emphasizing that husbands have the final say in family matters.

She reminded women that while the husband’s word is considered final, there is still a way for a wife to influence decisions through careful negotiation.

In a Facebook post on Wednesday, September 3, Mwelwa explained that a wife can find her space in the husband’s final decision by using her communication and negotiation skills.

Timing is important, she said, as suggestions are more likely to be heard when the husband is in a good mood.

She wrote, “A husband’s word is final. Married women, remember that he is the head of the house. However, as the neck of the house, you can still influence decisions by politely giving suggestions after he is relaxed and happy, using your natural wisdom like our mother Eve in the Garden of Eden.”

Mwelwa’s message highlights the balance in marriage: while respecting the husband’s role as the decision-maker, women can still play a key part in guiding family choices by approaching discussions with patience, respect, and tact.