A man has caused a stir online after boldly claiming that most men do not marry the women they truly like.

According to him, “80% of men do not marry women that they like. They marry women that can hold them down.”

He explained that while a man might admire or be drawn to a certain type of woman, when it comes to choosing a wife, he often settles for someone who possesses stability, responsibility, or nurturing qualities — not necessarily the one he feels the strongest attraction for.

The speaker added that this mindset contributes to the high rate of divorce. He argued that when the character traits or habits that initially convinced a man to marry begin to fade, it becomes easier for him to walk away. However, if the marriage had been built on genuine love and attraction, it would be harder for him to abandon the relationship.

The statement has sparked heated conversations on social media, with some agreeing and others insisting that love, respect, and commitment should be the foundation of marriage.