Former President Olusegun Obasanjo recently opened up about a significant aspect of his family history. During a drama presentation titled “Aremu omo Asabi,” held on July 24, 2024, to mark 66 years since the passing of his mother, Mrs. Benice Obasanjo, he shared why his only surviving sister was not educated.

Obasanjo revealed that his father held a traditional belief that no matter how educated a woman became, she would end up in the kitchen. This belief led to his sister not receiving an education. The event took place at the main auditorium of the Olusegun Obasanjo Presidential Library in Abeokuta.

In his speech, Obasanjo also recounted the story of his birth. His mother carried him for an extraordinary 12 months due to the influence of witches and wizards, according to local beliefs. It was only after what was considered divine intervention that he was born.

Reflecting on his mother’s life, Obasanjo expressed deep regret that she did not live to witness his achievements and enjoy the benefits of her hard work. He noted that his mother had given birth to nine children, but tragically, only he and his sister survived.

He said,

“I was told I was in my mother’s womb for 12 months, and since I was born, I have not been left for once. She had nine children, but two of us survived, myself and my sister,” he said. 

“I was the only one who went to school because my father’s belief was that no matter how educated a female child is, she would end up in the kitchen.”

This heartfelt recount highlights the challenges faced by women in past generations and the impact of traditional beliefs on their lives. It also underscores the resilience of Obasanjo’s mother and her profound influence on his life.