Nigerian pastor Kingsley Okonkwo recently brought up a thought-provoking topic about single men.

He posted a question on social media, wondering why some men who are over 30 and already working still claim they are not ready to get married.

“When a man that has a job and is above 30 says he’s not ready for marriage what does he mean? he wrote

The clergyman’s question got many people talking online. While some agreed with him, others gave different views.

Many commenters said that these men might have good jobs but still feel unprepared emotionally to handle the responsibilities that come with marriage.

This discussion has opened up more conversations around how men view marriage and what “readiness” really means in today’s world.