A South African woman named Dima has shared her opinion about relationships, and it’s got many people talking online.

According to her, some women believe they are in a real and loving relationship just because the man they are dating is loyal. But Dima thinks there’s more to it. She said the only reason these men seem loyal is because they are broke and can’t afford to chase after other women.

Dima explained that when a man doesn’t have money, he is limited in what he can do and who he can go after. So, he stays with one woman—not because he’s truly faithful, but because he simply has no other choice.

Her comment sparked a lot of conversation on social media. While some agreed with her view, others felt it was unfair to judge a man’s loyalty based on his financial status.

This debate continues as people share their experiences and opinions about love, money, and trust in relationships.

“Yazi people who date broke men often believe their relationship is genuine The reality is, the man is only loyal because he can’t afford others. Wait until he gets his money right uzobona imhlola. Abafana don’t look back after they find themselves, especially if you’re not the person they truly wanted to succeed for. Aniyeke ukondla abafana,” she wrote on Wednesday.