Nigerian actress and model Annie Macaulay Idibia has opened up about who gives her strength after her breakup with singer 2Face Idibia.

At the Headies Awards ceremony in Lagos on Sunday, Annie spoke to a reporter who asked about her family. She explained that her two daughters, Isabella and Olivia, are now her everything.

In simple pidgin English, Annie said, “You mean my children? My children dey Kampe. The first one dey Yankee, she dey go school. No play with that girl o. I don’t play with my kids. Na them be my backbone.”

Annie made a big statement at the event when she introduced herself on stage. She said, “My name is Annie Idi—oh sorry, Annie Macaulay. Hey, single ladies!” — clearly hinting at her new status as a single woman.

This public statement came shortly after reports that 2Face Idibia had introduced his new girlfriend, Natasha, to his mother.

Annie’s words show she is focused on her children and moving forward with strength.