A Nigerian man, Nelson Asuen, has shared advice for men about marriage. He warned men to be careful when choosing a wife, especially those who always say, “My pastor said.”

In a Facebook post on Wednesday, he explained that such women may allow their pastors to make decisions for them instead of their husbands. This can create problems in marriage. According to him, when a husband finally stands against this influence, the home may fall apart.

His advice to men is simple—think carefully before marrying a woman who depends too much on her pastor’s guidance, especially in important family matters.