A Nigerian lady, Confidence Maye Utomi, has shared her opinion on how women should react when a man invites them to a dirty house.

According to her, a woman should not see it as an opportunity to clean, wash dishes, or cook. Instead, she should feel disrespected.

She believes that a man inviting a woman to a messy home shows a lack of consideration and basic hygiene. It suggests that he expects her to take on cleaning duties rather than being treated with respect.

Many people agree with her view, saying that a man should tidy up his home before inviting someone over, especially a woman he is interested in. Others argue that if a woman truly cares for a man, she might choose to help him clean.

“You go to a man’s house, the house is messed up, kitchen untidy, things unkempt. Instead of you to feel insulted that he has no regard for you by inviting to such place, you begin to sweep, wash and cook. Some you don’t have small pride at all,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Thursday.

What do you think? Should a woman feel insulted, or should she help clean if she wants to? Let’s discuss in the comments!