South African pastor Kamwenda Mukala has shared strong opinions about men’s responsibilities in relationships. In a Facebook post on October 14, Mukala said that men are responsible for providing for their families and that a woman’s role is not to bring financial support but to enjoy the man’s provision. He added that a woman can assist financially, but only temporarily, when things are difficult.
Mukala harshly criticized men who ask women what they “bring to the table,” calling these men “losers and manipulators.” According to the pastor, men who make such demands are not fulfilling their God-given role as providers. He believes that God did not create women to be the main providers for the household.
His statements challenge more modern views of shared responsibilities in relationships. While many couples today prefer to divide duties more equally, Mukala’s message reinforces traditional gender roles, where men are expected to bear the financial burden and women are meant to support in other ways.
This opinion has sparked discussion, with some agreeing with the pastor and others believing that both men and women should contribute equally to their homes.
He wrote;
”This is what I personally believe the husband’s responsibility in Marriage according to the bible:
1. My responsibility as a Husband is to make money
2. My wife’s responsibility as a Wife is to eat my money
NB: All she need to do is to give me Respect and Peace that’s all and very simple.
I can’t understand men who ask women what are you bringing on the table, such men I call them “ LOOSERS AND MANIPULATORS “ and they don’t even qualify to be called “ MEN “.
Disclaimer: Your wife can help if she can temporarily for a season of dryness you might be going through but it’s not her responsibility. ( NEVER EVER EVER GET COMFORTABLE IN THAT SEASON, WORK HARD & PUSH AND GET BACK YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS SOON AS POSSIBLE PLEASE )
“Women by their nature were not designed by God to be working and providing but to be receiving from us and multiply it”
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