In the latest episode of Big Brother Naija Season 9, housemate Onyeka gave fellow contestant Wanni some relationship advice regarding her growing closeness to Shaun. Onyeka believes that Wanni is giving too much to Shaun without making him earn it, which could lead to an imbalance in their relationship.

Onyeka’s words to Wanni were clear: “Even if you’re sweet, men don’t understand that language. You have to let the man earn it. If you do everything for him, he’ll never see you as the prize. He’ll think he’s the prize.”

From Onyeka’s perspective, Wanni’s commitment is one-sided, and Shaun may start to take her for granted if she continues without holding back. Onyeka’s advice emphasizes that relationships should be built on mutual effort. She believes that when one person gives too much without expecting anything in return, the balance shifts, and it can lead to problems down the line.

Wanni agreed with Onyeka’s advice on the surface, but only time will tell if she decides to apply it. Onyeka’s concerns seem to stem from her own experience, as she also revealed that Shaun had previously approached her for a romantic relationship, but she refused. According to her, Shaun promised to leave Wanni and return to her later, which adds another layer of complexity to this housemate triangle.

The ongoing dynamics in the BBNaija house are becoming more interesting as housemates navigate relationships, strategies, and friendships. Fans will be watching closely to see how this advice impacts Wanni’s next moves and whether Shaun’s intentions are as genuine as they seem.