Nollywood actress Shine Rosman has sparked a conversation about marriage after saying that not everyone is meant to be married. The actress shared her view while addressing societal pressure on people, especially women, to settle down even when they’re not ready or don’t truly want that lifestyle. According to Rosman, marriage is a serious commitment and not just something to do to please family, friends, or society.

Rosman explained that many people enter marriage because they feel it is the “right time” or because others expect it, but end up unhappy. She stressed that marriage should be based on love, understanding, and readiness, not pressure or fear of being judged. To her, it’s better to remain single and happy than married and miserable. The actress believes that personal peace and self-awareness are more important than societal expectations.

She also noted that society often judges single people unfairly, making it seem like marriage is the only path to fulfillment. Rosman argued that everyone has a different journey — some are built for marriage, others are not, and that’s perfectly fine. She encouraged people to take their time, understand themselves deeply, and choose a life that aligns with their purpose and happiness.

Rosman’s comments have drawn mixed reactions online, with some supporting her honesty and others disagreeing by saying marriage is a universal blessing. However, many Nigerians are applauding her for speaking openly about an issue many young people struggle with but rarely address publicly due to judgment and stigma.

The actress concluded by urging people to prioritize emotional maturity, respect, and compatibility before thinking of settling down. She advised individuals not to rush into marriage simply because others are doing it, but instead wait until they are truly ready and willing to commit to the lifelong journey.