Toke Makinwa, a popular media personality and entrepreneur, recently addressed a common belief that single people are lonely and unhappy. This discussion came after her Thanksgiving party was mistakenly thought to be an engagement celebration with a friend.
Makinwa took to social media to share her thoughts about being single. She explained that life isn’t just about being in a romantic relationship and that being single doesn’t automatically mean being lonely. “It’s surprising how some people think all single people are lonely,” she said. “Many single people are actually happy and content. Being in a relationship is great, but without purpose, you could still feel lonely even with someone.”
She emphasized that personal fulfillment is more important than following society’s expectation to be in a relationship. As we approach 2024, Makinwa urged a change in mindset: “Let’s leave behind the idea that single people are sad or miserable. Many people are in bad situations and secretly wish they were alone, so let people be.”
Makinwa’s message highlights the importance of focusing on your own happiness and not being pressured by societal expectations. Being single doesn’t mean being lonely, and happiness truly comes from within.