In Ghana, Alhaji Ali Kamal, a married man, has expressed his views on a common issue: wives being concerned about their husbands chatting with other women. He believes that it is unreasonable for wives to expect their husbands to stop communicating with girls. According to Kamal, husbands will naturally interact with a variety of people, and this should not be a source of conflict in a marriage.
Kamal emphasizes the importance of trust and understanding in relationships. He argues that instead of trying to control their husbands’ conversations, wives should focus on building a foundation of trust. Open communication between partners is vital for a healthy marriage, and both parties should feel free to express themselves without fear of jealousy or suspicion.
Ultimately, Kamal encourages couples to approach their relationships with mutual respect and openness, allowing for a more harmonious life together.
“Hello, hi, dear wives, pls note, u can’t, u cannot stop ur husbands from chatting girls.. U were a girl n he was chatting u b4 he marry u.. Soo wat kind of nonsense is dis issues with u people worrying us because we chatting girls.. Should we chat animals.. Were u not chatting boys b4 u met ur husband n he marry u? Ahh let’s be serious.. Husbands, do not let any wife to suffocate u.. Dey keep saying men are de same. Soo if we are same n u can’t live with us, u can go.. We don’t care again. Is polygamy new? Is chatting girls new? Is side chick a new thing? Everyday problems why? U people should be serious ooooo else. Dey are behaving as if dey love us.. Nonsense,” he wrote in a Facebook post on Monday, November 4