In a recent message, Lagos-based cleric Kingsley Okonkwo urged single women to clearly define their relationships early on. He emphasized that it’s important to know where things are heading to avoid wasting time in indefinite situations.
According to Okonkwo, many women fall into the trap of not asking men about their intentions for the future. This uncertainty can lead to relationships that linger without commitment. He advised women to be proactive in having conversations about the direction of their relationships.
By knowing where things are headed, women can make informed decisions and avoid unnecessary heartache. Setting clear expectations allows both parties to understand each other’s goals and intentions. If a relationship isn’t progressing in a meaningful direction, it’s better to move on rather than stay in a situation without clarity.
In conclusion, women should be confident in asking important questions early in the relationship. This helps avoid time-wasting and ensures that both partners are on the same page about the future.
‘’Women ask the best questions when they are not in love. Once a woman is in love, she doesn’t know the question to ask. If you are a woman, one of the things you need to know about relationship is that it is important to define relationships, make sure you know what you are in.
Women are afraid and ashamed to define relationships and it puts them in trouble. Always get ‘’what” clear. I tell ladies don’t be available for dating, be available for marriage.
Someone will say ‘will I not date before marriage’? We date with purpose. there is an end point. Don’t just date for dating sake. Many women go about saying the man broke my heart. He didn’t break your heart. You broke your heart. A man came and ‘I want to date you and you said ’yes’ and he dated you for seven years. Has he lied?
Women are the ones that tell lies…’He broke my heart’. He didn’t break your heart. He said ‘I came to date you’. He said ‘will you date’ and you said ‘yes’. He dated you for seven years and said ‘’now you are outdated’ He did exactly what he said.
Don’t sign up for those indefinite relationships.”
