In a recent Facebook post, Ada Egede, a Nigerian woman, shared a strong message for married women. She emphasized the importance of being responsible when it comes to family planning. Egede urged women to only have children they can truly care for and support.

Her advice is straightforward: when women have more children than they can afford to take care of, they may feel pressured to find financial support in unhealthy ways, such as engaging in extramarital affairs. This not only puts their relationships at risk but can also harm their families.

Egede believes that women should focus on building their own financial independence rather than relying on affairs to support their husbands and children. By planning better, women can create a more stable and happy home for their families.

In summary, her message is a call for married women to take charge of their lives, prioritize their financial well-being, and make thoughtful decisions about family size.

“These days children are no longer gifts from God ooo. Born the ones you can take care of and stop sleeping around just to feed your akpa amu of a husband and his children,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Sunday.
     
“After sl€€ping around to help your husband of his responsibility na still you aja ani go kee,
     
Na still you ndi ichie go kee.
     
“Please married women, beans and roasted plantain business is the smallest business you can start biko nu.
     
“The things I see and hear about my gender especially married ones are so heart breaking.”