In a recent Facebook post, Kosi Ugo, a Nigerian man, sparked a lively discussion about relationships and the perceptions surrounding women with complicated pasts. His assertion that men are often attracted to women with a wild history challenges common stereotypes and societal norms. Ugo believes that many men are not deterred by a woman’s past experiences, especially when it comes to love and commitment.

Ugo’s perspective is rooted in his personal observations. He states that he knows numerous women, often labeled as ‘runs girls’—a colloquial term for sex workers—who have successfully transitioned into marriage with their former clients. This suggests that, for many men, the allure of a woman’s personality and the connection they share outweighs any stigma attached to her past.

One of the most significant points Ugo makes is the idea of redemption and starting anew. He argues that just because a woman has had a past involving sex work doesn’t mean she is incapable of building a loving, stable home. In fact, he believes that a woman can grow from her experiences, using them to foster resilience and strength in her relationships.

Ugo’s comments also challenge the societal stigmas often placed on women with complex histories. Many cultures still hold traditional views that can unfairly judge women based on their past choices, creating barriers to acceptance and love. Ugo’s stance encourages a shift in mindset, urging individuals to focus on the present and the potential for a fulfilling relationship rather than being fixated on past mistakes.

At the heart of Ugo’s message is the idea that true love is based on mutual understanding, respect, and emotional connection. He emphasizes that a man’s feelings for a woman should not be influenced by her past but rather by the bond they cultivate together. This perspective promotes a healthier approach to relationships, one that prioritizes love and acceptance over judgement.

Kosi Ugo’s insights serve as a reminder that everyone deserves a second chance. His belief that men can look beyond a woman’s past to appreciate her present and future is a powerful message. In a world where stigmas can weigh heavily, it is essential to foster connections based on love, understanding, and acceptance. By shifting our focus from judgment to compassion, we can create a more inclusive society where everyone has the opportunity to find happiness and love, regardless of their history.

“There’s a woman for every man. I can tell you categorically that men these days are attracted to bad girls. Many of you girls here have at one time, done Aseobi for someone who was considered wild at some point. You’ll even be hearing whispers and murmurs during the wedding like; “so man finally marry this girl?” “Him Sabi wetin him marry so?” Don’t be shocked that it was even in the line of her business with him that they got close,” he wrote.

I know many runs girls who married their clients. There’s a girl named Olivia, that trended for the Aseobi gown she wore to her friend’s wedding. As naughty and wild as that girl is, there are men who will do anything to put a ring on her finger.

When Cindy Umeh started going unclad on social media, a lot of you swore she was never going to amount to anything. Okwa kita, according to her, she’s married with a child and even bagged herself an abroad husband. You that is being a good girl and posting the right things on social media, have you found husband?

There’s really no formula to life. A girl who has aborted five times can marry and still deliver children, while you that is a virgin will be looking for the fruit of the womb for 600 years! A retired ashawo can still have a happy home, while you that wear The Lord Chosen’s Apron will be crying in marriage.

Real men do not care about your past, they see only your future. So, keep doing you, sis. There’s always a man for you, if you want one.